a healthy relationship?

i thought i needed kissing. everyday. sexy, tasty, kisses.
i made it an issue, then i gave it a rest.

and i am realizing that i was using it as a form of reassurance. i wanted daily assurance that this was something that he wanted. that things were going well.

turns out i like them a lot better when as sporadic expressions of joy and affection.

the only assurance i need i can see each day as share our days with each other. we have free will and are making choices every day and i am getting better at remembering that. (gasp) its nice to feel healthy, emotionally.